If you don’t know already, women like a man who is in control and who can take control. That is because that is a masculine quality that a feminine woman is attracted to. And I know this is going to sound crazy and maybe a little farfetched, but there is an actual word that you should be using in your vocabulary that is able to portray this dominance and this masculinity.
The word that you’re going to use is “let’s”. And you’re going to use this word when you’re suggesting to her what you guys should be doing or what you guys should do.Let me give you some examples :
L E T ‘ S – Not only do I want you to say this word, but I also want you to text it whenever you are texting or a suggestion of what to do. This is very powerful, and a lot of guys don’t do this. A lot of guys are really in the mindset of making sure that the girl is really pleased and knowing that she has a say in what to do. I’m all about offering the girl’s opinion on what to do or where you guys should go, whatever it is, but in the beginning of the courtship process, really throughout the relationship you should be offering suggestions and taking the lead.
That’s what we’re doing here. Of course, if she doesn’t want to do something, she’ll chime in, just assume that she’s interested in doing it and if not, then she’ll say something instead of trying to figure out beforehand if she’s going be interested in the thing that you guys are doing. Plus, if you say, let’s do this and you do it with excitement, it’s going to get her excited. It’s going to get anyone excited when you’re offering a powerful suggestion that you’re interested in.
Again, this seems kind of crazy, like really just doing this. Yes. You have no idea how many times I’ve heard women complain to me that a guy doesn’t take the lead. And no, it’s not because women are lazy, or they want men to do all the work. It’s because that lead that the guy is taking is really portraying that masculine quality and a lot of women like that. They like to know when a guy’s in charge that he has things figured out. I know this is also going to seem pretty crazy that this little thing has so much power, but really it goes into primal reasons here.
The fact that you’re suggesting something or you’re saying, hey, this is what we’re going to do and taking the lead, this is a masculine quality that shows that you have things together that shows that you’re not scared, that shows that you’re fearless. Instead of doing the opposite, asking her, well, what do you want to do? What would you like to do? What do you want? What do you want? That’s people pleasing, that’s pleasing her and that’s showing the weakness that you’re not confident in your own suggestions in your own life.
This is just the tip of the iceberg. I want you to be thinking on this level. This is just one example of something you could be doing using the word let’s and suggesting things to really show your masculinity and show your personality because this is what is going to turn her on. This is what I call “dominance.” Dominant men win this game. Dominant men are the ones that take control of their lives.
They’re the ones that make the decisions in their lives and make change. They have the effect and that’s what I want for you. I don’t want you to be the person to reacting all the time. I want you to be the person suggesting taking the lead, taking charge, doing things, and making decisions. This is what is going to make you more of a man, a little old school. I know, but it works.